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My vision

 

Throughout my years of experience at funeral ceremonies, I've noticed how many people long for a personal and sincere farewell—one that truly reflects who they were.

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This need for honest and meaningful words exists not only at funerals, but also at other vulnerable moments in life.

 

What can you expect from me?

With a strong sense of language and emotion, and a big heart for people, I help to find words where silence falls.
When emotions overwhelm and it is difficult to get anything said, I give shape to your feelings in words that touch and evoke recognition.

 

Words that are not only heard, but also felt – so that everyone feels connected in a moment of stillness, love and remembrance.

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You choose who will speak at a funeral

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It is a right that not everyone considers: when saying goodbye, you do not automatically have to choose who will "standardly" go first.

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You can decide for yourself who will tell the life story, who will lead the service, who will give words to that one unique life.

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The power of an independent speaker

 

As an independent pastor, I work independently of fixed structures or imposed timetables.

 

I take the time to truly listen. To understand who someone was. What you want to say. What you need to feel.
Together we create a ceremony that fits your values, your rituals, your memories.

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My experience lies entirely in guiding farewells. This means careful preparation, empathetic listening, skillful writing, and warm speech – with one goal in mind: a farewell that leaves a lasting impression.
Not distant, not imposed, but human. Dignified. And with space to be silent and together.

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  • Because in every farewell lies a story worth telling.

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  • In this way, every ceremony becomes not only a farewell, but also a tribute that continues to resonate.

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  • Together we make every farewell a moment that remains etched in the heart.

 

 

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